I would like down payment assistance for a home in NJ. I'm a single mother and make 50,000/yr. gross.?

Your way to above the poverty line to qualify for any assistance...even if it were available...which it's not...in NJ. Home-ownership is a privilege...not a right. Taxpayers are not in the habit of supplying down payments for people to purchase homes. Try saving like the rest of the country does.